I read this today and toyed with whether or not to post it.  And then, I had a particular conversation with someone and thought maybe he/she could use it.  (You know the conversation; the one rooted in self-doubt and unsuredness.  As general people-pleasers, some of us have these not infrequently.)  I love getting little pushes of motivation in indiscriminate places.  I hope that you (ahem...yes, you) get that from this: