With Patrick's birthday approaching, I have started to tell him his birth story; where we were, how it happened, what it felt like, etc. As it goes with most 2-3 year-olds, what you say and what they hear may favor each other, but are often quite different. As we sit here on Day 2 of Snowtastrophe 2011, I am listening to Patrick tell us his version of his birth story. It goes something like this:
"You got married because you were so sad I wasn't a baby. A---a----a-and you didn't have me yet. So then, I got growed in your belly. I growed and I growed and then I was so big. Then you woke up. And you woke up because you said to Daddy, 'Baby Patrick is so big a-aa-and he needs to come out.' Then I was here, and I was a baby a--aaa--and you were so HAPPY because I am so good. But now I am almost three and you are sometimes mad at me when I pee my pants."
Yep, good job, buddy. You summed that up nicely.
(Here's the real story, if anyone wants to read it.)
The family. We are a little band of characters trudging through life, sharing diseases and toothpaste, coveting one another's desserts, hiding shampoo, borrowing money, locking each other out of our rooms, inflicting pain and kissing to heal it in the same instant, loving, laughing, defending, and trying to figure out the common thread that binds us all together.
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